IF YOU’RE HERE IT’S BECAUSE YOU ARE A MEDIAL WOMAN

(WHETHER YOU KNOW IT YET OR NOT)

A MEDIAL WOMAN IS ONE WHO LIVES in TWO WORLDS at once:
THE SEEN & THE UNSEEN

As a huge-hearted and ambitious human with big dreams and a sacred vision for what’s possible in this life—for you and for the collective—you play a critical and tricky role:

Bringing heart and soul to everything you do…in a world that more often than not depletes, devalues, and even trivializes your value, your values, and your incredible gifts. 

Whatever it is you’re here to create—your art, your writing, your business, your children, your life—I know that you are creating it from your soul, and with your whole damn heart.

But it can be f*cking hard.

Especially when culture seems hellbent on dismissing you: trivial at best; a madwoman at worst.

But we are historically in a time in which, for all its flaws, we get to decide. For ourselves, and for the future of us all. (No pressure.)

HELLO, DEAR one.

I’M KATE

YOUR GUIDE INTO SOMATIC (BODY, MIND, & SOUL) LIBERATION

A decade ago I made the fateful decision to leave my in-house publishing job as Senior Editor to become a freelance book editor & book coach for women writers.

Within a month, the #MeToo Movement came for us all—and I became a woman who held my sisters as they wrote and shared their trauma-laden stories.

At the time I believed I was one of the lucky ones. 

I spent years holistically editing, educating, & coaching women writers to believe in their creative visions, write the books they’d spent years dreaming up—even when they required facing & retelling immense past trauma—& secure agent representation, & book deals galore—

But after years of burnouts & chronic stress I had to ask myself the hardest question:

WHAT ABOUT ME KEEPS CREATING THIS SAME RESULT? 

The answer was complex & multi-layered, but it boiled down to this:

As it turned out, I wasn’t one of the lucky ones; I was one of them. And I was living in total disconnection from my body as a result of the childhood trauma that had laid hidden inside of me for 30 years, waiting for the day I was strong enough to know the truth.

Coming home to my body turned out to be more than just a necessity: it has been the most transformative experience of my life—a hero’s journey & a homecoming so deep that I found myself in ways I didn’t know were possible. 

I retrained as a Certified MindBody Somatic Practitioner so I could share this groundbreaking, deep-healing, whole-life-realigning work with others like me—& welcomed all the more mystical, kooky, & magical aspects of myself that got revealed to me in the process.

Nowadays, you can think of me as the symbolic witch in the woods, & WHOLE HOUSE the glowing home deep in the forest: here to hold you through the depths of your greatest becoming yet on this lifelong heroine’s path of healing, reclamation, & liberating self-expression.

Thank you for being here. My soul sees your soul. 

THE WHOLE HOUSE PHILOSOPHY

  • 01 / Justice + Reclamation

    The path home to embodiment is the path home to the Soul—of the self, and by inextricable extension, of the World and the Universe.

    To be a Medial Woman, connected to and in communication with the Divine, is to know that All Beings are inherently worthy and deserving of safety, health, respect, love, and dignity.

    WHOLE HOUSE seeks to honour the ways in which colonialism and its many accompanying oppressive systems have caused severe power imbalances and immeasurable harms that perpetuate suffering on our planet. To learn more, check out our policy page here.

  • 02/ PSYCHOLOGICAL SAFETY + Softness

    WHOLE HOUSE prides itself on helping its clients get life-changing results through accessing safety and extending themselves softness, gentleness, and loving kindness.

    As a certified, trauma-trained somatic practitioner educated by some of the world's leading psychologists and mental health professionals, and as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse myself, I am keenly aware of the myriad challenges trauma survivors face in their day-to-day lives—and of the critical importance of working with professionals who are able to create a safe enough space for healing and transformation to occur.

  • 03/ WHOLE HEART HOLLOW BONE

    WHOLE HEART HOLLOW BONE is my personal philosophy, discovered and defined over the course of many years as a creative, a healer, and a Medial woman.

    In my experience, in order to do one's sacred work in the world, one must first seek out and create healing for herself. One must become the WHOLE HEART: a fount of love, unconditional as is possible in any moment, for oneself and others.

    As she returns to wholeheartedness, she can then set out on her lifelong path to embody the HOLLOW BONE: a term, used by the Lakota people (and occurring in numerous other Indigenous cultures around the world), meaning one who is a clear channel for lifeforce energy, undistorted by the projections, fears, and insecurities of the psyche (my definition).

    It is my life's work to embody the WHOLE HEART and the HOLLOW BONE, and support others to HEAL, SERVE, and CREATE as a wholehearted channel for creative lifeforce energy.

a little more about me

    • I identify as 50% house cat, 50% wild cat.

    • According to my latest shamanic journey, however, my primary spirit animal is jellyfish

    • The calliope jellyfish spends its days sun-floating close to the surface of warm, shallow waters, effortlessly cultivating its food source, algae, which grows harmlessly upon its "skin" as it floats and snacks. #learnfromnature #goals

  • Many a PhD, interestingly! (I only have a measly Masters...)

    • Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes

    • Dr. Esther Perel

    • Dr. Manuela Mischke Reeds

    • Dr. Gabor Maté

    • Qveen Herby

    • David Sedaris

    • Ilana Glazer

  • This is an excruciating exercise and NOT AT ALL CONCLUSIVE but...(in no order)

    1. Wild by Cheryl Strayed

    2. Priestdaddy by Patricia Lockwood

    3. The Neopolitan Novels by Elena Ferrante

    4. Middlemarch by George Eliot

    5. In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado

857

clients served

1,200+

hrs coaching provided

10

years in

business

3

retreats facilitated

20+

1st drafts written

7

book deals &/or

offers of agent

representation secured 

500+

hrs of somatic facilitation

77

students enrolled

in online courses

YOU READy?

YOUR HIGHEST SELF IS CALLING.